Java and Erlang are not mutually exclusive, they complement each other. I personally have learned to embrace both because very few complex business problems can be modeled exclusively from an object oriented or functional paradigm.
Integration and interoperability are now the key words that make modern IT business go round. It is also understood very well by the Erlang team, who created Jinterface - a set of Java classes for communicating with Erlang.
Jinterface is also the key element that allowed me to build a highly scalable Jabber cluster based on ejabberd as XMPP server and HBase distributed database as a storage. Ejabberd is a distributed Jabber server written in Erlang, but unfortunately Erlang native storage, Mnesia, can't handle large amount of data. To overcome this limitation, ejabberd provides ODBC drivers for MySQL, MS SQL and PostgreSQL, but it's only a partial solution to the scalability problem. First, the whole ejabberd cluster still uses a single database instance as data storage, and second, user sessions are still kept in Mnesia.
Jabase is a middleware set of components written in Erlang and Java providing communication layer between ejabberd XMPP server and HBase distributed database. While ejabberd ensures communication between users and server instances, HBase provides highly scalable, distributed database to store large amount of data and serve them efficiently. Additionally, Java instances are responsible for caching user sessions and providing efficient methods of serving and searching for session data, while Erlang code ensures session data integrity among Jabber server instances. Jabase architecture looks like this:
GPL and the project website contains a manual how to compile and set up a simple Jabber cluster based on Jabase. However, technical support is served exclusively by Division-by-Zero, for which I built this software. If you have any questions or are interested in using Jabase in your company, please contact Division-by-Zero.
Edit: You can get the original code here. Keep in mind that it supports ejabberd-2.0.3 and you may need to adjust the source code to make it work with the latest version of ejabberd.